Source: Shutterstock After sharing a guest-post on step-parenting from the step-child’s point of view, one commenter asked an interesting question: “Should a man with no kids be hesitant to date a woman with kids?
” First, whether a man has children of his own or not, there is nothing wrong with preferring to date women without children.
While the age of the child plays a factor, if you’re not looking for anything serious, you shouldn’t play the “I’ll figure it out” game with a ready-made family.
Further, if you’re not a kid person or don’t want kids, you should not date a woman with kids to see if you’ll change your mind.
” When he said that, his tone changed, as though sharing a dog with his girlfriend made him more committed to the relationship.
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But when deciding to date a woman with a child, you should be clear about your expectations for the relationship upfront with yourself and her.
How many women find themselves at the receiving end of their daughter’s clipped comment, “You’re wearing on a date?
Some are daughters willing to bring home and share their black boyfriend with mother.
Some are sons who owe a giant debt to their black counterpart.
Why was an elementary age girl modeling that attitude on a kid’s television program? But just because it’s the cultural norm mean we have to accept it.
In fact, we shouldn’t, because it’s based on a bunch of lies.